Tapi kenapa buat ngungkapin semuanya memang susah? Apalagi kalo yang kita ungkapin bikin orang itu sakit hati.. yah..
But if we have a problem, we have to solve it, right?Disaat mau ngungkapin itu semua, ada aja yang bikin kita gak jadi mengeluarkan itu. Padahal biar selesai masalahnya, apa emang cuma gue yang peduli sama semua ini? Sifat orang emang beda-beda, gue tau itu... dan buat nerima omongan kita ada yang nerima dengan lapang dada, ada juga yang gakterima..
But, actually it's better to say our uncomfortable feelings that makes people angry bcs she or he knowing all that we feel. Than we should be quiet and not say anything about what we feel but pretend to be good in front of him or her.Why do people pretend& hide the feelings that she/he felt? I had to pretend and that's not good. so, if there are any bad feelings that I would immediately talk about it, even though I don't know what the response will be that person out after I reveal it all. But, i always trying to make he/she understand what i feel.
After we expressing what we feel, we feel more relieved and there's nothing we have to hide anymore& to that person, we hope he can understand what we feel.
How can people can understand us but we did not tell what we feel to them, what we want from them.
People want to be cared for by people around him/her, but if the people around him do not be concerned about it, why don't we try to express what we want to them? Apa kita salah? Engga kan... gaada salahnya buat ngungkapin itu semua guys:')
Sometimes it's difficult to reveal their feelings are rarely issued to others, but remember... as long as we hide that feeling, the more we also feel "I have to say everything to him/her" and *TADAAAAAAAA* He/she knows what we feel and evrythings gonna be okay like usual :)
Sometimes it's difficult to reveal their feelings are rarely issued to others, but remember... as long as we hide that feeling, the more we also feel "I have to say everything to him/her" and *TADAAAAAAAA* He/she knows what we feel and evrythings gonna be okay like usual :)
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